Autumn reflection - Space to thrive
Today was the first morning that truly felt like Autumn. The crisp chill in the air was an instant mood booster. I slipped into a cozy sweatshirt for my early morning walk, letting the fresh air and bright sunlight wash my spirit. When I returned home, I opened all the windows to let the cool breeze cleanse the house.
Then came my favorite daily ritual: brewing a cup of coffee, sitting quietly with my dog curled at my feet, soft meditation music playing on the Alexa, allowing my mind to wander into reflection, and letting my subconscious take over my pen as it scribbles in my journal.
I find that when I give my mind permission to wander, it often gifts me with an “ah-ha” moment. My subconscious tends to present analogies that help me process challenges I’m working through in both personal and business situations.
Earlier this week I was asked about the type of people I am looking to surround myself with in my business. I gave a heartfelt answer as to the personalities I prefer to collaborate with, but afterward, I realized I could express it more simply and clearly. This has been spinning in my head over the past few days.
That clarity came to me this morning.
Last night I brought my porch plants indoors, preparing for the cooler temperatures. My home has limited space, so finding the right spot for my mini indoor forest was a bit of a puzzle. I love the vibrant energy that plants bring into each room. Even with minimal corners to tuck them, I seemed to find the perfect spot for each one where they will soak up just enough sunlight to continue to grow.
I’ll admit, I didn’t inherit my mother’s green thumb. Over time, I’ve learned that the plants thriving under my care are the ones that don’t need constant attention. The ones that flourish are those I’ve placed in the right space, provide enough light, warmth, and occasional watering. On the other hand, plants that demand daily care or meticulous pruning rarely survive long in my home!
This leads to a simple realization: I should choose plants that thrive once they’re set up in the right environment. The ones that just need steady, gentle support.
And then it clicked…
I am inspired watching others succeed. I enjoy sharing bits of insight with those open to listening, those who truly appreciate my thoughts. It is satisfying to watch them take my words and apply them to their personal situations.
In reflection of my various careers over the years, I find that I personally thrive in an environment where I have what I need to succeed—training, support, and encouragement—but then am given the space and freedom to flourish in my way.
Over-management risks stunting someone’s confidence and independence. I felt overwhelmed in positions where I was micromanaged and held back in fear of making mistakes. When a boss gave too much direction and demanded I follow strict protocols, I felt small and stuck.
If I were to build a business that I truly felt proud of, I would want to attract people who trust the environment provided, who value insight and collaboration, but who also have the drive to be self-sufficient. I want each person on my team to grow in their own way, with confidence, creativity, and purpose.
So, when I think about my ideal team, I realize what I truly want is a team of succulents! Individuals who thrive beautifully on their own, yet still benefit from consistent care and a nourishing environment.
Minimal management. Intentional support. Sustainable growth.